I was on Frumster several years ago. I left the site and did not come back until now because it was absolutely disgusting how I was being contacted by men old enough to be my father and I had no way to limit it. Yes, it's nice that now there's an age filter of 20 years, but it's not enough. I'm 25, it's very inappropriate that my profile should be viewable to a 45 year old man. Let us specify the age filter, or at least reduce it to 10 years.
That is a great suggestion. For now it is a 20 years age difference, however we will keep this in mind. If you want to avoid men or woman contacting over the 20 year range, we recommend that you highlight this in your profile description for now.
I'd suggest that members be allowed to set whatever age range they wish, but I'd strongly recommend that JWed also create a searchable/filterable feature so that people can quickly find the members who are willing to consider someone his/her age. I think that men who are looking for a much younger wife don't want to offend anyone; they simply don't have a means of knowing who is comfortable with being contacted by them. It would be a tremendous help to them as well as to younger women for these men to be able to search profiles of women who are both in the age range the man is looking for, and who are willing to consider someone the man's age.
I don't know why people are still having to ask for this BASIC feature. What, worried they'll drive away their clientele who likes to lurk around and hit on young girls?